still wondering!!!!!!

still wondering!!!!!!

Tuesday, May 25, 2010

or kyaaa....





Aisa lagta hai .. ke ek naata hai jo tujhse juda hai..
saanse hain ke rukti nahi... dhadkan hai ke thamti nahi.... nazrein intezaar mein..

naa jaane kya hai ye... aisa bhi to nahi keh sakti.....

Per haan itna yakeen hai ke jo ishwar ka aashirwaad mila hai... Vo humari zindagi ko baarish ki boondo saaa chamakta rakhega..

ek yakeen hai..... na jaane kis pe .. tum pe .. ya bhagwaan pe.. ya humare rishte pe.... ya khud per....

ke har pal.. har din... intezaaar badhta jaa rha hai... or wishwaas gehrata jaa rha hai... ke "vo aayega ek din, mujhe saath leke vo jayega ek din"...

yakeen hai mujhe samay se pehle or kismat se zyada kisi ko kuch nahi milta.... per

jab bhagwaan se poocha tha ke kya main aage badh jau is raah per to unhone heee humara haath ek doosre ke haath mein diya thaaa... aisa hi laga thaa mujhe

mujhe kismat pe yakeen hai... kyunki bhagwaan ne heee likhi hai....

Vishwaas... sachaaii..pyaar... or kyaaa...

Friday, May 14, 2010

Y still wondering!!!!

Whats that one thing which makes us believe that even after the fact - earth is round ---- But we wont slip?????????
Whats that one thing that makes a farmer work hard and harder through out the year although he has seen years or draought and rains both... ?
Whats that one thing that the bird which drinks only rain water believe that it will rain one Day?????
Whats that one thing that a mother has in her heart when her child goes out to school in morning---- she believes that the child will come back evening?
Whats that one thing that a beloved sitting one country believes in, when her other half is seven seas apart?????
What makes the love bond grow stronger even if two are not physically with each other???

May be you have many answers to this...However when i think about all teh thousand answers that anybody may have on this earth......... i Zero in on only one ...............
it is probably

Trust, Faith!!!!!!!!!!! -

It may in God... It may be in Love.. may be in relation.......
But yes it is and it has to be ..... Dont you think so?????????

Again its just my thought :)

Wednesday, May 5, 2010

love


ishhshshshshssh

Jaane kyu dil jaanta hai ........


This is my favorite song and i think... thts quite alike... my likes..... i love bright colours... smiles.. laughs all around... songs music and dance....
Reason.... being i believe its just ONE life that we have been blessed with.. y not be happy and keep others happy...
Being happy doesnt always mean laughing... it implies satisafaction.. contentment... fulfilment... hmmm what else... :) being with your beloved... and in any relation the must is: being in touch however .... yes there is one more important factor in a hubby-wify relation and it is TOGETHERNESS..... Yes indeed sometimes distance has its own importance and probably increases importance all the more... however........ it may act adversly as welll so beware.. keep meeting... keep dating.....

Jaane kyun dil jaanta hai
Tu hai toh, I’ll be alright

Friday, April 23, 2010

We & our Relations

Brother-sister
Mommy-daddy...Wify-hubby...Momm-son...
daddy-daughter...daddy- son
Mommy-daughter...friend-friends...
inlaws-daughter/son-in-laws ....etc.........

the list simply doesnt end.... all above and all more that can come to your mind are equally important in their own stratas......
its amazing...
one person
and
so many beautiful realations attached
in so many facets... :)
Important is
Not to COUNT rather To CHERISH & VALUE all those in RIGHT MANNER & RIGHT TIME

So my message to todays youth goes like this....
Do progress do go high & enjoy.. However dont forget somebody or either of these relations or sometimes all these relations are more than just attachments in life DONT take them as a burden or any SO called Restrictions rather UNDERSTAND the connection and feeling that they have for you .. in short n simple language...
Dont Run Past so fast that somebody may require to throw a stone at you to stop and pay attention to the other requirements in life other than SELF....


Remember they also had the time the one we are going through now.. however they never chose to stop and njoy their life the way we are doing now ... so do pay attention to this fact and then
DO CHILL OUT .. however CHILL OUT WITH YOUR RELATIONS as well

Friday, March 26, 2010

Life begins... together forever!!!!!!!!!!!


26th March............ :) wats special about the day... it is probably the begining which has actually begun a long time back however a stamp had been put and now its formal....
Relationship doesnt mean only being formally related however the formal nod makes it all the more special and sincere... isn't it!!!!!!!!!!
i guess i make some sense here... instead of writing as usual my heart i guess i shud write something sensible... anyways... on contrary if i dont put my heart in it... it may not sound real.....
so lemmme spill my heart out............
i finally decided to carry forward the previous post "when they met for the first time" which was a narration of an informal casual planned meet :) which was indeed lovely ..... this time it was formal.......... and they are formally commited now..... so 7 months back an informal conversation started....... and now all around are flying colours....
I agree - "life is like a box of chocolates, you never know what you'll get"

C'est la vie :)

Thursday, March 18, 2010

When they met for the 1st time !!!!!!!!!!!!


12th march........She was waiting to receive........ her heart was sinking.... cab meter was running on waiting ..... lolz :) which never mattered :)
Coz he was coming...... 7 months they interacted.... fell for each other.... and met 1st time after being in love without meeting even once...
they say they never felt like they have never met......
He sang the song: " i knew i love u long before i met u"
they were hungry ........ she didnt have food for more than 12 hrs then...
after meeting him... she never felt hungry....
they gave each other a warm hug........
now this was a begining of 6 days life where they laughed... ate .... walked... roamed.....cried .....together.... discussed life and phenomenal discussions... as both of them love talking :)......
now the 7th day dawned and she went to airport to see him off ....... she drowned in tears...
while on the way to airport they thought they never did what was planned however
" what happened was... so far so good :) "
they came closer in understanding..... behavioral patterns and learned and discussed lessons of life...
now as he has landed in some other soil.......when she passes by the same roads where they walked "Hand in Hand".... she is lonely........
Strange but true - she is not talking much....
Just walking and living regular work and life but not talking........
The moment she tries to speak tears rolll down .....
she is waiting.....waiting ......waiting

Tuesday, March 9, 2010

Family love


“In family life, love is the oil that eases friction, the cement that binds closer together, and the music that brings harmony.”

Salute to a Responsible Kid

While coming from the client site... i and my team stopped at a dhaba(Roadside eating places somtimes also called as hotels) for lunch in evening at 5:00 pm....... we ordered food.. the KID who was serving our table had something in his eyes... something on his face which caught my attention everytime when he came to our table..... and when i said something about salad there was some issue with the green chilly.. he said "Sorry" then next time when he got chappaties i said ill ask later he said "Sure" then after we finished lunch.. i said thank you, he replied " Its Okay" then i couldnt resist asking him.. " What is your name" His reply was "My name is Aman Bhardwaj" and his face was with the same expression throughout.... with the same confident voice... in English language....my colleague asked him "do u go to school" he said "he has passed 10th and his father has expired tht is y he is working"...
I salute his attitude towards life..... it is amazingly positive.. high spirits... very balanced ... confident... smart KID..
I shook hands with him and greeted him bye with a smile...
I wish God gives him courage and guide him to the right path in his life...

Wednesday, March 3, 2010

Hand in hand


its all about a feeling......deep in heart.....it reaches soul when .... it actually overflows from heart... ...or when these feelings grow stronger ... actually surpasses the heart and routes into the soul....
that first touch... when two hands just touch by each other...then there is a ting sound in heart .. or i guess ...heart sinks a little bit...then craves for another one.. and then one after the other.. fingers are crisscossed .. which ignites the.. Hand in Hand :)

This feeling... probably makes the word love realised.... when hand in hand becomes an understanding..... :)......and it continues .... effort rather .. effortless effort.....

Sunday, February 28, 2010

togethernesss



“A wedding is a start of togetherness... of walks in the rain, basking in the sunshine, shared meals, caring for one another and sensing the love that a marriage carries.”

long distance love....



A part of you has grown in me.
And so you see, it's you and me
Together forever and never apart,
Maybe in distance, but never in heart.

Beleive in yourself -- I DO


People are like stained-glass windows. They sparkle and shine when the sun is out, but when the darkness sets in their true beauty is revealed only if there is light from within.

dollishsh...

Why Blogging?

why have i started blogging???????
It gives me a platform to pendown my thoughts..
share the ideas ....

Saturday, February 27, 2010

@ttitude towards life

Whether you think you can or you cannot, you are always right
There is nothing on earth you want that you cannot have — if only you will mentally accept the fact that you can have it! There is nothing you cannot do — once your mind has accepted the fact that you can do it.