Pain that i saw in a girls eye.. tear rolled down

I cant stop thinking ---- How much it matters ? To whom should it matter ? What matters ? What should n't matter ? Whats truth & whats a lie ? Do I know or Do you know ? Who is right ? No one knows, yet every single person believes - self is right, rest are to be blamed. Is this true for an Indian society or is it the mirror that shows the reality - which is very painful.... i am writing all this because i met females from cities, towns, villages, metros, west, brahmachaaris, old, young, beautiful.... i dont claim - i know everything ... Neither do i want to know everything .... but its painful to see that just because of fairer sex - a female is taken forgranted, she can be told anything & everything, she can be framed about anything.... She is passed judgment on, not even heard, no body bothers - she also may have a story to tell talk to share... I feel bad for her -- do i want to feel bad NO -- this is what i told her -- Dont feel sorry for yourself -- stand against - open your mounth give a shout and all the more stand strong. We say, we are westernizing - ARE we ?? really ? i mean seriously ? why cant we have a step cleaner a conscious that will warn us before giving pain to anybody. during my continued journey of meeting females across the world - i want to make sure that the message travels straight -- Dont bow down to what ever shit is thrown at you... God said - bura karne wale se zyada bada paapi vo hai jo us barai ko apne per sehan kar rha hai...