Pain that i saw in a girls eye.. tear rolled down

I cant stop thinking ---- How much it matters ? To whom should it matter ? What matters ? What should n't matter ? Whats truth & whats a lie ? Do I know or Do you know ? Who is right ? No one knows, yet every single person believes - self is right, rest are to be blamed. Is this true for an Indian society or is it the mirror that shows the reality - which is very painful.... i am writing all this because i met females from cities, towns, villages, metros, west, brahmachaaris, old, young, beautiful.... i dont claim - i know everything ... Neither do i want to know everything .... but its painful to see that just because of fairer sex - a female is taken forgranted, she can be told anything & everything, she can be framed about anything.... She is passed judgment on, not even heard, no body bothers - she also may have a story to tell talk to share... I feel bad for her -- do i want to feel bad NO -- this is what i told her -- Dont feel sorry for yourself -- stand against - open your mounth give a shout and all the more stand strong. We say, we are westernizing - ARE we ?? really ? i mean seriously ? why cant we have a step cleaner a conscious that will warn us before giving pain to anybody. during my continued journey of meeting females across the world - i want to make sure that the message travels straight -- Dont bow down to what ever shit is thrown at you... God said - bura karne wale se zyada bada paapi vo hai jo us barai ko apne per sehan kar rha hai...

Forever together - Swati & Ishashis

26th march marks - two years to our engagement.
we are happy being married :)i beleive its no less a reason to smile about :)

They say -- life is not a bed of roses, i thought - So be it - i am with Ishashis, its none less either...

i dont mind thorns ever, neither do i mind ups & downs,
coz i know these will bring more faith, love, care, togetherness forever.

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10 steps to solve problems in life!!!! :)

A trouble, problem, Sh*t Happened or may be crap! Damn it!

We all know a cliche - Life is not a bed of roses.... How true - we know it!!!!

okay lets see what are the different kinda problems that an individual may face --

1. Financial
2. Relationship
3. Professional
4. Emotional
5. Personal
6. Social
7. Physical
8. Personal
9. Ego Problems
10. Environmental Problems

What else ???? So we have majorly - 10 types of problems and 10 steps to solve all :)

Whats the solution --- One method to solve every problem

1. Be Patient
2. Identify how it came up to the stage
3. Discuss with close ones -- Listen to all,BUT do what you think is the best
4. Always give time to yourself alone at least once to draw/pen down how things happened.. -- You should have at least a rough picture in your mind first , then reach out the near and dear ones to discuss.
5. Reach the root cause
6. Identify and Start eliminating the reasons that caused the problem.
(If it is a relationship then Quite mutual - patient discussion is utmost important)
7. Don't let third party get in it will always hurt egos and either and will soar the issue to higher degrees
8. Identify and put priorities straight and agreements in place (emotional/ material .. what ever depending on situation...)
9. Adjust, respect, love, Attitude to give and Forget, Forgive and move on with a solution --- Are NOT just words... :) REMEMBER & PRACTICE ALWAYS
10. Once again Listen, Listen and listen, let the other person speak, Be Patient
and try to know what the other person thinks - It helps a lot. :)

and IF you religiously follow the above steps... every problem has a solution...

Chill out, relax and enjoy, smile and let it go....
Its not the end of the world.. There is a lot to stay happy for......

Love Thyself :)

y blog -- blogging ???

cliche -- its a platform where you can express what you wanna say, may be talk about or discuss.

fact --
its a great place to just be at and its the place that is available when nobody is....
it is there when you don't have anything to do....
it is an open lab for experiments....

Blogging rocks!!!!

hey blog -- Long time no see!!!!!!!!!

Its been more than a year i have not logged & blogged in here!

blogging is one activity that gives you time to think and write whatever you want....

i have nothing special to talk here as of now, just a brief update -

i got married on 17 nov 2010 and its going to be a year next month....

Probable question is - how does it feel ??? - almost same is the answer,
which trust me is a good thing ... so ---- so far so good :)

and trust me when i say "almost same" - i mean it..
next question might be " o c'mmon ! you can't feel the same you are married now...

but naaahh i feel the same rather i sometimes i wonder o my god now i am married and happy settled i have somebody to see when i comeback home.. somebody for whom i wait and he waits for me and its beautiful... :)

but yea its all because such a beautiful family i got married in and a wonderful husband - my pati - my boyfriend...

all i have to say is ---

"i'm lovin it"

or kyaaa....

Aisa lagta hai .. ke ek naata hai jo tujhse juda hai..
saanse hain ke rukti nahi... dhadkan hai ke thamti nahi.... nazrein intezaar mein..

naa jaane kya hai ye... aisa bhi to nahi keh sakti.....

Per haan itna yakeen hai ke jo ishwar ka aashirwaad mila hai... Vo humari zindagi ko baarish ki boondo saaa chamakta rakhega..

ek yakeen hai..... na jaane kis pe .. tum pe .. ya bhagwaan pe.. ya humare rishte pe.... ya khud per....

ke har pal.. har din... intezaaar badhta jaa rha hai... or wishwaas gehrata jaa rha hai... ke "vo aayega ek din, mujhe saath leke vo jayega ek din"...

yakeen hai mujhe samay se pehle or kismat se zyada kisi ko kuch nahi milta.... per

jab bhagwaan se poocha tha ke kya main aage badh jau is raah per to unhone heee humara haath ek doosre ke haath mein diya thaaa... aisa hi laga thaa mujhe

mujhe kismat pe yakeen hai... kyunki bhagwaan ne heee likhi hai....

Vishwaas... sachaaii..pyaar... or kyaaa...

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